No Apologies, No Regrets - Kissinger

Accept everything about yourself - I mean everything, You are you and that is the beginning and the end - no apologies, no regrets.'
Henry A. Kissinger

The journey of Life allows us to become who we choose to be, and in the end, let's hope we have no regrets.  This doesn't mean we have to be infallible and always make good choices; for as the Garth Brooks song goes, "Failure isn't failure if a lesson from it's learned."  We can always learn from difficult experiences, whether the event that occurred was within our control or not.

Sometimes Difficult Truths. 

1.     Whether you know them or not, or get along with them, you are your parents' child.  You are genetically and/or emotionally linked to them. 

2.     You are perfectly designed to get the results you get.  If you are unhappy with the results you're getting, take a good look at your input factors and choose to make changes. 

3.     Your happiness, is your Choice.  Make choices that satisfy both mind and heart, for when they are in accordance with one another you will find greater happiness.

4.     The world will continue to turn, with or without you.  You're insignificant in that respect, but you are important and worth the effort.  Believe it, because it's true.

5.    People will make mistakes.  People will disappoint you.  But you will do the same.  Forgive others.  Forgive yourself.

Life happens.  We've all heard it before.  It doesn't make it easier, nor does it make it easier to accept difficult experiences and process those emotions.  It also doesn't give me comfort, generally, to hear someone tell me that I am not suffering alone.  However, I believe that there is always a life lesson to be learned from trials and triumphs.

Be confident.  Be smart.  Love, be loved, and believe in Love.  Sexy starts within the walls of your mind, it's felt in your Being, and comes oozing out of your figurative pores, so own it.

Sexy starts with me.

JJ